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Gratitude is one of life’s most profound gifts.

It does more than brighten your mood—it plants the seeds of optimism, and from those seeds, hope grows. A grateful heart fuels a healthier, happier, and even longer life. But here’s the secret: gratitude isn’t just something you feel. It’s a choice you make, every single day.

For as long as I can remember, I’ve kept a gratitude journal. It’s my quiet corner of reflection, where I capture the small and big moments that bring me joy—moments that might otherwise slip by unnoticed. A kind smile. The warm embrace of Earl Grey tea in my favorite mug. The way sunlight dances on a windowsill. These tiny treasures often hold the most beauty, but only when we take the time to notice them.

When life feels heavy—and it inevitably does—that journal becomes my anchor. Gratitude doesn’t erase the hard times, but it offers clarity. It reminds me that even on the hardest days, there’s always something worth cherishing.

That’s why I’m thrilled to share my 2024 gratitude journal with you. My goal is simple: to encourage you to slow down, savor life’s blessings, and let hope and joy find their way into your heart. This is a very personal blog post that is a regular feature on my blog annually.

Why not start today? Find a notebook, take five minutes, and jot down what you’re thankful for. It doesn’t have to be grand or poetic—just honest. Because when we focus on what’s good, we invite more goodness into our lives.

Here’s to keeping our cups full, together.

2024: A Year of Milestones, Gratitude, and Growth and Better Days

“And I pray for better days for everyone in the world.” – Goo Goo Dolls, Better Days

As I sit down with my gratitude journal on the final day of 2024 and look back on the year, I’m overwhelmed with gratitude for the experiences, achievements, and lessons that shaped 2024. Each milestone was a reminder of how far I’ve come, how much I’ve grown, and how blessed I am to be on this journey.

This year has been a tapestry of blessings, challenges, and growth. Sharing my gratitude feels like inviting you, my readers, into my heart—a place where love, hope, and faith reside. Here’s a snapshot of the moments that made this year unforgettable:

The Gift of Life

Life itself is my first blessing. For my life and the lives of my loved ones, I am endlessly grateful.

To honor this, I dedicate “Cherish” by Kool & The Gang to all of them. Life is fragile, and every moment with those we love is a treasure worth celebrating.

Safe Journeys

This year, we traveled near and far, always returning home safely. For every journey mercy granted to us and our loved ones, my heart overflows with gratitude.

Each trip reminded me how precious it is to have a place to return to—a sanctuary filled with warmth and familiarity.

18 Years of Love

This year marked 18 incredible years of marriage to my husband. Eighteen years! Our marriage has grown into adulthood, and with it, so has our love.

I dedicate three songs to us:

You’re All I Need to Get By performed by Ben Platt and Cynthia Erivo this year. The song is originally by Nickolas Ashford & Valerie Simpson.

“Nobody But You” and “Happy Anywhere” by Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani to you.

You are my home. With you, I’ve found love, laughter, and the kind of joy that feels like adventure. You’ve been my safe harbor, my encourager, and my partner in everything. Thank you for 18 years of togetherness and for all the memories we’ve created.

For My Daughters

To my two amazing daughters, this gratitude runs deep. You inspire me daily.

I dedicate “A Mother’s Prayer” by Celine Dion to you both.

Here’s what I wish for you:

• Rely on your faith. Trust God as your source of hope and guidance.
  
• May your paths be protected with love and grace. The world may be tough, but you are tougher.
  
• Fight fiercely for your dreams. Don’t wait for someone else to offer you opportunities—go out and create them.
  

Above all, remember this: You are enough.

If the world ever makes you feel like there’s no space for you, carve your own path. You are destined for greatness, unapologetically. And in all you do, may you always remember that we love you deeply.

Thank you both for keeping us grounded, humble, and on our toes.

A Precious Gift: Time with Our Mothers

This year brought us a gift beyond measure—time with our mothers.

My 72-year-old mother visited from Nigeria and stayed with us for six weeks. Those weeks were a blessing, filled with laughter, shared meals, and cherished memories. Anyone with elderly parents knows how precious these moments are. Each one feels like a treasure, reminding us to hold tight to the time we have.

We also had the joy of celebrating with my 84-year-old mother-in-law, whose wisdom and presence continue to enrich our lives. Together, we shared family milestones and celebrations, weaving new memories into the fabric of our lives.

For the opportunity to honor and love these remarkable women, we are deeply thankful. I dedicate these songs – A Song For Mama by Boyz II Men and – In The Room by Maverick City Music, Naomi Raine and Tasha Cobbs Leonard – to both of them for their witness and faithfulness in teaching us of God’s presence in our lives. Loving them is food to our souls. Time with them is a reminder of the strength and love that connect generations—a legacy we carry forward with gratitude.

Celebrating My Blog’s One-Year Anniversary

This year, my blog turned one!

Cue the music: Born to Be Brave – by High School Musical: The Musical: The Series only on Disney+.

Starting a blog was a leap of faith, but what an incredible journey it has been. I will keep defying gravity.

One thing I’ve learned this year is that progress often goes unnoticed. It’s not always loud or celebrated.

But just because others don’t see it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

I’ve realized:

• Being behind someone else doesn’t mean I’m on the wrong path.
  
• Applause isn’t the only measure of success.

But here’s the thing—I will celebrate anyway! Because “E No Easy” by PSquare sums it up perfectly.

Success deserves acknowledgment, even if it’s just me clapping for myself.

Milestones in Los Angeles

Reuniting with my four siblings and family in Los Angeles to celebrate milestone birthdays was a beautiful blessing. Family, laughter, and memories were the soundtrack of this unforgettable trip. I dedicate this song to them – “Celebration” by Kool & The Gang.

My Personal Growth

Growth is not always visible, but it’s always transformative.

This year, I reconnected with my dreams and vision. Listening to Gabrielle’s “Ten Years Time” reminded me of something important: I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be.

It’s taken over a decade for me to launch my blog, but every step of the journey prepared me for this. I’ve learned to trust myself, to be brave, and to share my gifts unapologetically.

I don’t know where I’ll be in 10 years, but I’m ready for the ride. Life isn’t about certainty—it’s about showing up, living passionately, and making a difference.

New Year’s Day Movie Night with My Daughters

New Year’s Day was a cozy one. My eldest daughter curated a movie list, and we laughed until our sides hurt.

One highlight? Steven Spielberg’s reimagined West Side Story.

Over 12 years ago, I saw the West Side Story production at the Milton Keynes Theatre. Spielberg’s re-imagining brought a burst of color, capturing the essence of Puerto Rican culture, dance, music, and the poignant journey of immigrants. It delved into love’s struggles across divides, the despair of loss, and the aching regret after untimely deaths.

I often find myself pondering: What would their lives have looked like if those needless losses hadn’t occurred? Did they learn from their pain? Did they grow?

But I digress. As we sang the songs together, it became clear—the joy of spending time with a loved one is nothing short of healing. That kind of quality time is a gift that never fades. It’s a bond that stays with you, long after the music ends.

Disney 100 Exhibition

As a lifelong Disney fan, visiting the Disney 100 Exhibition at ExCeL London was a dream come true.

Every moment fed my curiosity, imagination, and creativity. I learned that Walt Disney treated music as a character in his films—a concept that resonates deeply with me.

I even picked up Disney’s 100 Quotes book, which has become my go-to coffee table inspiration. (If you’re curious, I wrote a full blog post about the experience!)

New Year’s Afternoon Tea at TING

This year, we marked New Year’s Day with an elegant afternoon tea at TING, Shangri-La Hotel.

Perched on the 35th floor, we soaked in breathtaking views of London while savoring every bite. It was a celebration of family, luxury, and love—an experience that reminded me how important it is to make memories that last.

The Lion King Musical

This year, I revisited a special memory.

Twenty years ago, my husband proposed to me after we watched Disney’s Lion King musical. It was a night I’ll never forget—a promise to a life of love and adventure.

This year, I took our daughters to see the same show at the Lyceum Theatre. (I’ve captured more of my thoughts in a blog post—feel free to check it out!)

Sharing that experience with them was a full-circle moment. It was a reminder of how far we’ve come and the blessings we’ve shared.

I left the theatre feeling elated, nostalgic, and deeply thankful for this beautiful life we’ve built together.


You can check out my other posts on:

• 93 Blessings and Gratitude Quotes – which I use for reflection, daily journaling prompts, writing messages to friends, and speeches.
  
  
• The Ultimate Guide to Gratitude Journaling
  
  

South Korean Drama Days

My second daughter fell in love with the enchanting world of South Korean dramas last year.

We dedicated two days to binge-watching two of her recommendations, and I was mesmerized by the storytelling, music, and cultural richness.

It was a beautiful bonding experience and a reminder of how much there is to learn from other cultures.

My Sister’s 40th Birthday

My sister turned 40 this year, and what an epic celebration it was!

She is my SHero—the Wind Beneath My Wings (by Gladys Knight).

“Sister” by Charlotte Dipanda and Yemi Alade captures everything I feel about her. She is my rock, my cheerleader, and my constant source of encouragement.

Her unwavering support has shaped my life in countless ways. She reminds me to be better, love harder, and dream bigger.

To my incredible sister: Thank you for being you.

Les Misérables: A Love Rekindled

My husband and I went on a date night to see Les Misérables the Musical at the Sondheim Theatre.

Victor Hugo’s emotionally charged story of Jean Valjean’s redemption and perseverance moved us to tears.

Ten years ago, we saw a production of Les Mis in the Middle East, and it sparked a love for the story and soundtrack in my husband. This year, I surprised him with West End tickets—a wish he’d carried for years.

Watching him experience that joy was priceless. (I’ve captured more of my thoughts in a blog post—feel free to check it out!)

Reaching Blogging Milestones

Just 13 days after launching my blog, I crossed the 100-user mark.

By Day 30, I had 188 users and over 2.2K page views. By Day 35, 200 users had found their way to my corner of the internet.

The numbers kept climbing: 305 users in 80 days (2.6K views) and by August, I celebrated crossing the 1,000-user milestone with over 6K views.

It wasn’t just about the numbers—it was about the gratitude I felt for every person who visited, read, and shared my words.

Amazon Affiliate Success

This year, both my UK and US Amazon Associates accounts were approved, opening up the first of many income streams for my blog.

• UK Affiliate Success: Approved 133 days post-launch and earned £6.32 with a conversion rate of 9.76%.
  
• US Affiliate Success: Approved in just 39 days post-launch and earned $4.06 with a conversion rate of 2.01%.

These small but significant wins reminded me that success is built one step at a time. Every accomplishment is proof that I’m on the right path. Here’s to more success in future.

Celebrating My Daughters’ Achievements

My heart swelled with pride as my daughters reached important milestones this year.

• My first earned a merit in LAMDA Grade 7 Acting.
  
• My second achieved a distinction in her Grade 5 ABRSM theory exam and a distinction in LAMDA Grade 5 Public Speaking.

Their hard work, dedication, and talent continue to inspire me every day.

A Journey of Growth: Starting My Coaching Course

This year, I embarked on an incredible journey at Barefoot Coaching Ltd., diving into their ICF Level-2 accredited coaching course. It was far more than a learning experience—it was a transformation.

The course stretched me in ways I hadn’t anticipated, unlocking new perspectives and fostering immense personal and professional growth. My tutors brought unparalleled expertise, while my amazing cohort (OL92) offered a tapestry of experiences that enriched every conversation and interaction.

Through this journey, I gained valuable insights into my coaching style—affirming the strengths in my approach while identifying areas to refine. It was a deep dive into who I am as a coach and the impact I want to create.

This experience was a gift, one that has not only shaped my coaching practice but also strengthened my resolve to keep learning and growing.

A Transformative Experience: Coaching with Purpose

During my coaching course with Barefoot Coaching Ltd., I had the privilege of working with three remarkable volunteer clients, dedicating 45 hours to their growth and transformation.

Their trust, vulnerability, and willingness to dive deep made each session not just a learning experience, but a profoundly fulfilling one.

One moment stands out. One client said to me, “You’ve found your home and life purpose.”

Those words brought tears to my eyes. In that simple sentence, I found a deep affirmation of my path—one that confirmed my commitment to helping others transform their lives. It was a reminder that true purpose doesn’t just come from what we do, but from the impact we have on those around us.

Sweet Sixteen: A Quiet Celebration

We celebrated our first daughter’s 16th birthday in a simple, heartfelt way. It was a quiet day, filled with gratitude for the light she brings to our lives. Her kindness, strength, and laughter are daily reminders of how blessed we are to have her. Here’s to her journey ahead and the countless moments of joy she’ll continue to create.

Strengthening Our Marriage

My husband and I attended our third Marriage Encounter weekend, in Swindon and our first in the UK.

These weekends have been transformative for our relationship, equipping us with tools to communicate better and create a stronger foundation for our family.

The Marriage Encounter experience, whether over a weekend or in seven three-hour sessions, offers couples valuable tools to strengthen their bond.

It’s not just about improving communication or deepening emotional connection—it’s about creating a nurturing, secure environment for the family.

These skills, learned with intention, continue to serve couples even as they enter the empty-nest phase, ensuring a lifetime of love, growth, and mutual support.

This is a journey that deepens your relationship and prepares you for all the seasons of life ahead.

I’m grateful that our daughters witnessed our commitment to continually grow in our marriage. The weekend left us feeling renewed, connected, and ready for whatever comes next.

A Ladies Spiritual Retreat in Glasgow

Traveling to Glasgow with six incredible women for my annual spiritual retreat was a highlight of the year.

We explored the city, laughed over lunch at Turkiye Efes Restaurant, marvelled at the Zippos Circus, and ended the day in quiet communion with God.

The 3-nights retreat was a chance to renew, refresh, and restore—spiritually, physically, and emotionally. Even with travel delays on our return, we remained grounded in the peace and joy we’d found together. Here’s to more numbers joining me in 2025.

A Small Win Worth Sharing

This year, my husband and I discovered a fantastic registration center where we obtained our NIN documents in just 30 minutes. It was so efficient that we referred friends and family for the same service.

Sometimes, it’s the small wins that bring unexpected joy!

Inspired by Hamnet

Watching the Royal Shakespeare Company’s production of Hamnet at the Garrick theatre was an emotional journey.

Maggie O’Farrell’s poignant portrayal of Shakespeare’s wife, Agnes, and their family deeply moved me. Agnes’s resilience and unwavering devotion to her husband struck a chord, but it was the portrayal of grief—after the loss of their son—that lingered in my mind. It highlighted the different ways spouses cope with such tragedy and its impact on a tight-knit family.

Learning that Shakespeare wrote Hamlet in memory of Hamnet added another layer of beauty and sorrow to the story. It reminded me of the healing power of art and its ability to preserve the memory of those we love. (I’ve captured more of my thoughts in a blog post—feel free to check it out!)

Laughter with Basketmouth

Attending Basketmouth’s comedy show at the Indigo O2 was pure joy.

Joined by five other hilarious comedians, the night was a whirlwind of laughter that left me hoarse and my spirit lighter.

I learned of the Nigerian perspective on trips and journeys. It was a reminder of the healing power of humor and the beauty of sharing joy with loved ones.

Mother’s Day Lunch

This year, I shared a lovely Mother’s Day lunch at Izgara Restaurant with my mother-in-law and four sisters-in-law.

It was our first coordinated celebration in a long time, and it reminded me of the strength of sisterhood—even with our differences. Prioritizing these connections was a gift I’ll always cherish.

The Handmaid’s Tale

Watching The Handmaid’s Tale at the London Coliseum with my husband was equal parts chilling and thought-provoking.

Its dark themes lingered with me long after the show, prompting deep reflection. (I have captured more of my thoughts in a blog post—feel free to check it out!).

A Weekend of Inspiration in York

I am a school governor of a Catholic secondary school. As part of my work, I was invited to the Loreto Education Trust Conference in York. This trip was nothing short of transformative. Immersed in the legacy of Mary Ward, I felt deeply inspired by her pioneering spirit and the enduring impact she has had on girls’ education in the UK.

The weekend unfolded beautifully. From exploring the Bar Convent Museum to marveling at York Minster, strolling along the historic city walls, and indulging in dessert at the Guy Fawkes Inn – the restaurant, each moment was a blend of history, reflection, and joy.

The conference itself was an affirmation of community and purpose. Engaging presenters brought Mary Ward’s vision to life, deepening my commitment to empowering young women through education. Visiting the Bar Convent Museum was particularly moving, reminding me of the resilience and courage required to open doors for future generations.

I left York feeling inspired and connected, ready to carry forward Mary Ward’s mission with renewed passion.

Celebrating a Godson’s Milestone

One of my Godsons turned 18 this year and earned a place at a Russell Group University. Watching him grow from a child into a young adult has been a true blessing. Being part of his journey—witnessing his achievements and supporting him along the way—has been a joy I will always cherish. Here’s to the many more milestones ahead for him!

Easter Blessings

This Easter, one of my three brothers visited, filling our home with laughter, joy, and precious family moments. We reconnected, reminisced, and simply enjoyed each other’s company. It was a gift to cherish.

Crafting EPIC Moments

Reading The Power of Moments: Why Certain Experiences Have Extraordinary Impact

 by Dan & Chip Heath was a game-changer. It taught me to seek and create EPIC moments—elevated, insightful, proud, and celebratory.

It also reaffirmed my pledge to embrace daring moments, those that scare me and make me feel alive. Life’s richness lies in these bold, intentional experiences. It also inspired a blog post I will be publishing in 2025.

Self-Care Superstars

To all the spectacular women who enrich my well-being with their skills and care, thank you. You’re the unsung heroes of my self-care journey, and your impact is immeasurable.

Boyz II Men Magic

A night out with girlfriends at the Boyz II Men concert at the OVO Arena Wembley was pure nostalgia and joy. From the infectious energy of “Motownphilly” to the emotional depth of ballads like “End of the Road” and “On Bended Knee.”

Boyz II Men (Nathan, Wayan, and Shawn) delivered a performance that was nothing short of mesmerizing.

Their vocal prowess and undeniable stage presence captivated the audience from start to finish. The chemistry between them was palpable, their harmonies weaving together effortlessly to create moments of musical brilliance.

Standout moments included soul-stirring renditions of “It’s So Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday,” “Water Runs Dry,” and “4 Seasons of Loneliness,” where each note resonated with raw emotion.

And as the night culminated with the heartfelt encore of “A Song for Mama,” Boyz II Men once again reminded us all why they are true legends of R&B, their timeless melodies etching an unforgettable experience in the hearts of everyone in the room.

It was a reminder of the timeless power of music to connect, heal, and uplift.

Sister Act Brilliance with Beverley Knight

An unforgettable evening at the Dominion Theatre watching Sister Act with family and a dear friend left me in awe. Beverley Knight’s powerhouse voice brought the house down, balancing humor and grace effortlessly.

Her soulful rendition of Take Me to Heaven was electrifying. I laughed, I cried, and I left with my heart full. Beverley Knight’s performance was a divine experience that will stay with me forever. (I’ve captured more of my thoughts in a blog post—feel free to check it out!)

Positive Intelligence Breakthrough

Joining the Positive Intelligence coach grant program by was a life-altering experience. Over seven weeks, I learned, grew, and connected with brilliant coaches from around the world.

Through weekly challenges, accountability pods, and the wisdom of Coach Shirzad, I discovered new depths in my coaching practice. It’s a program I wholeheartedly recommend to every coach.

Full Circle Moments

My daughter’s school celebrated the end of Year 11 with a Thanksgiving Mass for the students, parents and carers at a very special venue. What made it extraordinary was having my mum and mum-in-law join us at this venue – the very church where my husband was baptized as a baby.

It felt like a full-circle moment, filled with gratitude and God’s blessings. My heart overflowed with joy, knowing how far we’ve come as a family. I have sealed all the love and energy within my heart from this moment, and then shared it with you all.

Blogging Brilliance

A heartfelt thanks to Mike Futia for his Simple Stupid Blogging course. It stretched my mind and transformed the way I approach blogging. Growth happens outside the comfort zone, and this course proved it.

A Peak Moment of Joy

When my first daughter passed her audition and was offered admission to the Junior Guildhall School of Music and Drama, we were overjoyed! It was a moment of pride, gratitude, and excitement—a dream come true for her and our family.

Certified Again

Renewing my Project Management Professional (PMP) certification for another three years was a gratifying milestone. Every voluntary and paid engagement I’ve undertaken since June 2021 contributed to this success. It was a testament to the power of consistent effort and growth.

Incredible Coaching Connections

To the amazing coaches I met through the Positive Intelligence program: thank you for inspiring me. Here’s to future collaborations, lifelong friendships, and shared adventures!

Celebrating Online Publication Success

My HARO and QWOTED pitches were featured in multiple online publications, driving traffic to my blog and boosting my visibility. The joy of being recognized as a thought leader is evergreen. Cue the happy dance!

The Different Shades of Hard Work

This year, I learned the nuances of hard work—strategy, pure effort, opportunism, consistency, and focus.

Consistency became the heartbeat of my blogging journey, while the Positive Intelligence program sharpened my focus. I also embraced smarter strategies, knowing that a well-thought-out shortcut can be just as valuable as raw effort.

Ascot Adventures

A day at the Ascot races with a delightful group of four ladies was pure fun. My second daughter even chose my fascinator, making me proud. From start to finish, the day was a blend of elegance, laughter, and unforgettable moments.

A Village for Prom Night

It took a village to prepare my first daughter for prom, and I couldn’t be more grateful to every “auntie” who helped make it happen. She had the time of her life, and so did I, knowing she was surrounded by love and support.

A Graduation Reunion

Attending a friend’s graduation at Cranfield University with my sister was a deeply meaningful experience. It had been eight years since I last spent time with this friend. Sharing her special day reminded me of the beauty of enduring friendships.

An Unexpected Joy & Sister Time

Running into my sister unexpectedly at Heathrow T3 while picking up my Mum was a moment of pure, uncontainable joy. My screams of excitement filled the terminal, and my heart, with happiness.

My sister’s visit was a gift of connection, laughter, and shared memories. From shopping to self-care, every moment was a reminder of the bond we share.

Finding Strength in Loss

This summer, we lost two beloved family members in tragic accidents. Grief weighed heavily, but having my Mum and family by my side brought solace. Their faith and love bolstered me during this time, reminding me of the importance of community
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Lyssa deHart’s Wisdom

Discovering Lyssa deHart on YouTube and connecting with her on LinkedIn has been a treasure. Her insights and training videos continue to guide me on my coaching journey.

A Sister Act of Support

To the incredible friends and family who rallied around us during our loss — thank you. Your kindness and presence were a balm to our grieving hearts.

Celebrating New Beginnings

Attending an extended family member’s graduation in Portsmouth was a joyful occasion. Spending time with vibrant young minds reminded me of the beauty of fresh starts and boundless possibilities.

Exploring Pinterest with Purpose

Mike Futia’s Pinterest course was a game-changer. Diving into analytics, experimenting, and testing strategies transformed my page into an insightful, exciting playground. Each tweak felt like uncovering a secret treasure.

A Gen Z Social Media Whisperer

Recruiting my first daughter as my social media intern was pure genius. Watching her creativity flourish while navigating difficult yet enlightening conversations about what works (and what doesn’t) was like taking a masterclass in Gen Z.

When Music Fills the Soul

Both daughters attended their National Youth Choir residentials, one in Berkshire, the other in York. Their concerts—one at the historic Oxford Town Hall, the other at Sir Jack Lyons Concert Hall—were mesmerizing. Seeing them thrive in music fills me with joy.

A Choir Legacy Comes Full Circle

Our first daughter’s National Youth Choir (ages 15-18) concert, conducted for the last time by the legendary Greg Beardsell, was bittersweet. Greg’s early encouragement when we met him in the Middle East, to audition for the NYC Girls’ Choir and the London Youth Choir, helped shape her musical journey, and we owe so much to his guidance. She returned home with new friends in addition to old friends, stories, and her love for music burning brighter than ever.

A Symphony in York

Our second daughter’s National Youth Choir (ages 9 -15) performance at Sir Jack Lyons Concert Hall – one of the finest acoustics for instrumental and vocal performance in the North of England – radiated joy and confidence. She returned home with new friends and stories, her love for music burning brighter than ever.

Sister Act, Round Two with Alexandra Burke

Seeing Sister Act for the second time was no less magical. This time, Alexandra Burke stole the show with her electrifying performance of Sister Act – a Motown-inspired score by Tony® and 8-time Oscar® winner Alan Menken. Sharing the evening with my daughters and a dear friend made it unforgettable. (I’ve captured more of my thoughts in a blog post—feel free to check it out!)

Barefoot and Beyond

Passing my final performance evaluation and earning a second Barefoot Coaching Ltd certificate was a triumphant moment. Another step forward on my coaching journey.

My ICF Milestone & A Step Closer to My Dream

I became an ICF Member.

Submitting my application to the ICF to become an accredited coach was a moment of pride.

 When the ICF confirmed I could book my credentialing exam, time seemed to pause. It was a moment of gratitude—a reflection of hard work and the realization that a long-held goal was within reach.

Budapest: A Love Affair

We fell for Budapest—its baths, castles, markets, and sunsets. The food delighted us, the sights amazed us, and the memories will call us back. I fell in love with ghoulash. It is now a comfort food recipe in my home.

A 45th to Remember

My 45th birthday brimmed with gratitude and prayers for wisdom and grace. Dinner at Byblos – Fine Lebanese and Levantine CuisineRestaurant and a lovely  Budapest: Historic cruise at night on the Danube River with Duna Cruises were the perfect celebrations.

Art Meets Empowerment in Budapest

Two exhibitions stirred my soul: The World of Banksy: The Street is a Canvas Exhibition and Divas & Icons Exhibition.

Banksy’s work sparked deep conversations, while the Divas & Icons Exhibition at the remarkable House of Music in Varosliget, Budapest celebrated women who triumphed against the odds. The experience has inspired a blog post coming in 2025.

Movie Marathons and Korean Dramas

Summer, autumn, winter—our family dove into Pirates of the Caribbean and Korean dramas. The laughter and music brought us closer. Blog post on K-dramas coming soon? Maybe.

Music, Memory, and MJ

A second surprise visit from my sister turned into an unforgettable night at MJ the Musical. If you’ve known us for a while, you’ll understand that our love for music and dance is more than just a hobby—it’s woven into the very fabric of who we are.

Our playlists are like time capsules, filled with tracks from our childhood that hold decades of memories, laughter, and unforgettable moments. Every song takes us back, transcending time and space, reminding us of the great times we’ve shared and the bond that music has only deepened over the years. We sang, danced, and reminisced over dinner in Chinatown, filling our souls with joy and music.

Family Gratitude Walks

Exploring local parks as a family has been a grounding ritual. Conversations—deep, funny, and sometimes challenging—remind me of the beauty of growth and connection.

Wholesale Joy

Discovering the Western International Market was like striking gold. Bulk buys have redefined our family food budget, and I’m grateful for every discovery.

Oxford Open Day

An eye-opening trip to Oxford University for an open day with my first daughter reminded me: gatekeepers exist, but it’s our job to knock on doors before deciding they’re not for us. We enjoyed the day.

My First Coaching Conference

Attending my first coaching conference, ICE 2024, was exhilarating. Learning about Ubuntu coaching and connecting with inspiring coaches left me energized for collaborations in 2025.

Sharing African Culture Through Food

For the third year, my daughters organized an African Food Sale, raising funds for their school while sharing the richness of African cuisine. This time, even more parents and students joined, celebrating and learning about our culture. Seeing the community come together to support their efforts filled me with gratitude. Serving alongside my family is life-affirming—a true gift.

ICF ACC: A Year of Growth and Grace

Passing my ICF credentialing exam and earning the Associate Certified Coach credential was an incredible honor. The journey—10 months of intensive coaching education—taught me resilience, passion, and patience. This year has been a mix of joys and sorrows, but this milestone was a shining light I’m profoundly thankful for.

The journey though intense was fulfilling – My skills are now a bridge to connecting with and transforming lives. This moment is a Shekere moment for me.

A Speech That Moved the Room

During Black History Month, our first daughter gave a speech titled Reclaiming Narratives to local councillors. It was a proud moment—a testament to her voice, strength, and ability to inspire others.

A Birthday to Savor

Celebrating our second daughter’s 14th birthday was a heartwarming reminder of how quickly time flies. Her grace, wisdom, and quiet strength continue to inspire and amaze us every day.

This year, we marked the occasion by watching Wicked together—a poignant experience that reinforced how deeply music intertwines with our family’s story. The melodies, the magic, and the shared smiles brought comfort and joy, making the day truly unforgettable.

We’re profoundly thankful for her life and the light she brings to our family. Here’s to her continued growth and the music that keeps guiding us all.

Thanksgiving: Love at the Table

Our annual Thanksgiving dinner was a celebration of love, community, and gratitude. With family and friends gathered around, we prayed for a longer table and a home that continues to welcome all. Love truly conquers all.

A Night to Remember at the Royal Albert Hall

Watching our first daughter perform in My Christmas Orchestral Adventure 2024 with the National Youth Choir was breathtaking. Surrounded by family cheering her on, it was a magical evening—a proud and joyful moment for us all.

A Magical Evening in London

There’s something truly special about the Christmas lights in London. Walking down Oxford and Regent Streets, with their festive glow illuminating the night, was a moment of pure joy. Surrounded by family, we took in the sights, the sounds, and the buzz of the city. The air was filled with excitement, and as we strolled through the sparkling streets, the holiday spirit seemed to come alive. Shopping along the way added a little extra sparkle to the evening, but it was the simple pleasure of being together that made the night unforgettable.

Celebrating Hubby with Aretha’s Music

Hubby’s birthday was unforgettable, marked by Jules Buckley’s Aretha at Christmas concert with the legendary Sheléa and Vula’s Chorale at the Royal Albert Hall. Music, family, and love made the night truly special.

A Voice That Blesses Us

Watching our second daughter perform at the Christmas concert at our parish church was a deeply moving experience. Her voice, filled with warmth and grace, continues to be a blessing to us all.

Laughter That Brought Us Together

Seeing Everyone Loves Jenifa at Milton Keynes Cinema with friends and family was a riot of laughter and fun. Moments like these remind me how shared joy creates lasting memories. Bring on more laughter-filled days in 2025!

A Christmas to Remember and a Family Affair

Hosting Christmas was a beautiful celebration of family and culture—a true clan affair. We ate, laughed, danced to vibrant Nigerian songs, and had a blessed time together. Everybody Loves Christmas by Jenifa and crew had us dancing and cracking up—it was the perfect soundtrack to a joyful day. At Christmas Time by Luther Vandross captured how I felt about the Christmas season.

Embracing Rest and Rebalancing

2024 taught me that burnout can happen, even when chasing dreams. I’m learning to pace myself, plan better, and avoid overwhelm. This journey has sparked ideas I can’t wait to share in the new year.

Trusting the Process

Shifting my mindset from obsessing over hourly analytics to focusing on monthly milestones changed everything. Instead of chasing numbers, I dedicated myself to creating meaningful content. This change made each achievement feel deeply fulfilling. No comparisons, no stress—just joy in the journey and faith in the process.

Humbled by Global Readers

In 2024, my blog welcomed 2,200 visitors from 78 countries—an overwhelming honor for someone who once doubted her place in the blogging world. Knowing people gave their time to my words is humbling and inspiring. For next year, I’m focusing on building an email subscription, understanding my audience, increasing engagement, and sharing my content more widely.

Kindness and Boundaries

“Kindness and compassion” were my guiding principles this year, and they’ll continue into 2025. These values helped me set and maintain healthy boundaries while releasing anything—or anyone—that didn’t nurture, challenge, or inspire me.

Gratitude for My Village

My caterers were my quiet heroes this year, stepping in when I needed them most. Whether for celebrations or daily sanity-saving meals, they allowed me to stay kind to myself during overwhelming times. They made it look like I had it all together—when sometimes I really didn’t. It truly takes a village, and for them, I am forever grateful.

The Power of Intentional Service

2024 allowed me to continue to relish the quiet joy of serving purposefully. Each act, no matter how small, became a way to fill my cup and nourish my soul. Being intentional about how and where I offered my time transformed service into something deeply rewarding. It reminded me that giving doesn’t deplete—it replenishes when done with love and meaning.

Gratitude for 2024

2024 was a year of love, growth, and gratitude. It reminded me of life’s quiet truths:

• Celebrate the small wins even when it’s quiet. They’re the stepping stones to bigger dreams.
  
  
  
• Stay curious, inspired, and open to learning. Every new discovery adds color to your world.
  
  
  
• Love fiercely and without reservation. The people who matter most deserve nothing less.

What Does 2025 Have in Store for Me?

I don’t have all the answers yet, but that’s part of the adventure. I’m stepping into 2025 with excitement and gratitude. While the year continues to unfold, I’ll anchor myself in the blessings and experiences that have shaped me so far.

My prayer for 2025 is simple yet powerful: May we all find better days. May we embrace gratitude, cherish our loved ones, and greet each day with hope and courage.

Here’s to carrying these lessons into 2025—and beyond.

Here’s to another year filled with hope, adventure, and blessings. May we honor the beauty of progress, the joy of connection, and the promise of brighter days ahead.

What were your standout moments this year? Let’s celebrate them together.


What are you grateful for as 2024 comes to a close?

Here’s to life, love, and happiness—and the limitless potential of what’s yet to come.

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